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BEAR BLANKET'S COMFORT IS MORE THAN SKIN DEEP

2/13/2016

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Sometimes it would seem that even though we didn’t choose certain objects that we keep around our homes, they become important parts of our lives all the same. Kelly Finch, my hometown friend from Liberty, Indiana, shares such a story in today’s guest blog. Thanks Kelly!

By Kelly Finch

The bear blanket was given to me nearly 30 years ago as a Christmas gift. At that time, I had scarcely any –if any at all—extra blankets.

This certainly didn't fit my decor, as I was in my early 20s and trying to make my home look "grown-up.” But it was big and thick and warm—perfect to wrap up in and keep warm in the winter.

Soon thereafter, as my babies came along and turned into toddlers, the bear blanket became the favorite one to cuddle with on the couch while reading or watching TV.

It was the one the kids wanted wrapped up in when they were sick. No one really fought over it, and by the time numerous extra blankets had appeared in the house, the bear blanket was always the first one someone grabbed.

It went on family vacations with us or even long day trips when we might have to leave early in the morning. The kids would grab a pillow and blankets to sleep on the way. The bear blanket was a staple on all these trips.

As the kids got older and began playing sports, it went along on cross country meets. It is seen in many pictures with my kids and their friends wrapped up in it for warmth on a chilly fall morning, at track meets, football, basketball and softball games. It became well known with the teammates. It seems everyone loved that bear blanket.

The kids have grown up and left home. My husband has pretty much commandeered it and it is still a staple item, used almost on a daily basis.

Through its many washes, it has become threadbare, it's faded, and the binding has been long gone. Food and drink have been spilled on it. It has been vomited on, drug through the mud, the dog likes to lay on it. You name it; it has experienced life. It is certainly well-loved.

My baby is a senior in college this year. A couple of weeks ago she became very ill while at school and decided she needed to come home. (Asking to come home, I knew she must be very sick!)
Before I left, I asked her if she wanted me to bring her anything. Of course, she wanted the bear blanket.

It's strange to think of a piece of fabric--something you would never have purchased for yourself, something that didn't fit the idea of being grown-up-- would end up being a family favorite.  And a continuing source of comfort.
Picture
Kelly created a collage of scenes from the life and times of her family's bear blanket. Top, daughter Sarah cuddles with it. Below, closeup of one of the bears on the blanket and right, the blanket appears in a pile of kids as it often has through the years.
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nancy huntington
2/13/2016 06:03:18 am

love it!

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Donna Cronk
2/13/2016 11:52:59 am

Kelly did a beautiful job on this story. She should submit it to Chicken Soup for the Soul.

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Debbie M. link
2/14/2016 08:29:56 am

You know when something has captured your heart: the memories associated with that item become more dear than the item itself!

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