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JOY IN THE JOURNAL

6/21/2017

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The other day I was thinking about life’s blessings, challenges, and worries. I suppose most of our days' thoughts could be summarized in those three categories.

I remembered a long-ago “joy journal” I kept for a while, a New Year’s resolution to daily record one positive observation, happening or thought. I had no idea what happened to it.

We’re getting some new furniture, so two nights ago I cleaned out a bedside-table drawer stuffed with greeting cards, notes, and letters. Among the correspondence was a small notebook. I didn’t recognize it at first. But then I read the title page.
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The opening entry was on the first day of 2002. We had returned from seeing in the new year with our friends, Rick and Gay Kirkton. My entry:

Heated bed pad. Warm, comfortable, and something I didn’t know existed until we slept in Kirktons’ bed last night. I kept waking up in the night thinking, Ahh … this is great.

Also that month:

No cavities! In fact, no cavities for the boys, either, and no charge as cleanings / check-ups are covered. The boys have never had a cavity. Good dental care pays off.

Then one on finding a blessing in the midst of something hard:

David’s surgery today for throat cancer appears successful. Praise for the doctors.

And later, one for something simple:

For the warmth of my nice ear muffs from Galyan’s.
 
Here's one for recognizing privileges in the obvious, but often overlooked:

For all the luxuries that seem like our lifestyle: oil changes at Walmart, eating out, automatic washers and dryers, dishwashers, microwaves. Our days are blessed by these things we take for granted.

I feel grateful and cheered re-reading these simple – and complex – joys. I don’t know why I stopped making entries.

So here’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to pick up this small joy journal and begin again daily  recording life’s blessings. I’ll do one a day. Although each day has so many when you think about it. And if you don't think about it, give it a try. I dare you.

I’m reminded of the beautiful old hymn, Count Your Blessings.

I spent a portion of the last two nights going through the drawer's paper greetings, taking time to look at each one closely. The two who send the most, both over the course of the years and layers of paper, and now, are Gay Kirkton, and our daughter-in-law Allison. Coming in third is a stash from Cheryl Bennett.

Some are stacks of birthday greetings for Brian from his former staff and students. Some are notes from people I can't place, who were perhaps in our life for a short season or reason, and wedding invites to marriages both sturdy and no longer united. The paperwork with only signatures got tossed. Those with personal notes are kept, amounting to about half the stash.

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These cards and letters made the keeper cut.
Email and Facebook have been hard on the stationery and card industry, but it’s still a joy to get a thank-you note in the mail, or a funny birthday card hand-picked and signed with a note, such as a few prizes sent to Brian from his brother, Steve. So here’s an entry for today, the first of my rekindled commitment:

Grateful for those who take time to send a greeting either on paper using ink and a stamp, or in other ways, expressing their personal thoughts and sentiments in writing. It's still a kick to get mail -- on paper or electronically.

How about you? If you started a joy journal today, what would be your first entry? There’s joy in our journey. And it’s all a journey.
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Gay Kirkton
6/21/2017 09:44:14 am

Thanks, Donna, for the encouragement to send cards! Glad they are appreciated! As a matter of fact, I went to the dentist yesterday and also had a good check-up! The part that makes me happy is the confirmation that yes, indeed, I do have TMJ. And then for the first time I was given an explanation of its cause and how to treat it. (There are different kinds.) When I was 18, I had a pretty painful bout with it, but at that time it wasn't a "thing," and my dentist thought I just wanted attention. Grateful for the recognition of my pain and the explanation! Also, grateful that it's not a huge deal and it is easily treated.

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Donna Cronk
6/21/2017 09:55:37 am

Gay,
I'm so glad it's treatable! And easily! Who knew?
Maybe you should send your dentist a thank you note!
Found a cute card from Thomas. I'll show you Tuesday! Donna

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Debbie M. link
7/3/2017 03:02:51 am

Donna... For 2017, I purchased the little book, "Happiness is... one happy thing every day." Each page has three lines for three entries. (It is a 3-year journal.) There is not much room, so it forces me to articulate something happy versus recounting the day as in a diary.

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Donna Cronk
7/4/2017 05:51:14 am

Debbie,
I like the way your journal forces you to condense your happy thoughts.

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